Naughty is Nice

Hands in the cookie jar five minutes before dinner? Naughty. Leaving your dirty clothes on the floor? Naughty. Dipping your spoon back into the ice cream container over and over again? Naughty. Getting naked? Now naughty takes on a whole new meaning.

And a nice one at that.

We all use our imagination to fulfill those longings for ‘things’ we wouldn’t normally do, but that secretly turn us on. While studies often report how many times men think about sex in a day, they often neglect the fact of fantasy. Men tend to think of the act, women tend to visualize all the slow and sensuous ‘getting there’ parts. Admit it or not, women use fantasy and daydreams as a means of escape during the day, and as a means of commiting acts she’s not brave enough to speak aloud. Although most every man would love to know, and be happy to re-enact, what’s going on his woman’s head as far as the bedroom arena. 

That is the main reason we read romance, the very reason we read erotic romance. 

Erotic romance fulfills those fantasies of all the things we wouldn’t normally do, with none of the ‘getting there’ bits left out. So the next time you want to be naughty, go for it. I’m sure you’ll find it quite nice.

Take Heart

Life has been more than hectic, hence the lack of posts for the last two months. But I am still writing. Working on several projects actually. Take it from me, if you’re a writer, you’ll write-regardless if you ever sell a book or not, regardless of how tired you are, you’ll find a  way to write.

I wrote 4 or 5 stories (3 of which were single titles) before I sold my first book. Don’t consider yourself sunk if getting published takes a while. This is a tough business, and very few people sell their first book, or even every book they write. Many famous authors have received rejection letters, I know some with file drawers full.

In my case, the very first book I sold did not publish due to financial problems of the publisher. So even selling isn’t a 100% guarantee you’ll see your book in print, or for sale. So take heart.